003: Discretion and How I Handle Your Privacy
Security is as much of a concern for me as it is for you—let me assuage your fears, my love.
In a previous post, I mentioned that until recently, I've famously been off social media. I'd say the greatest reason for that is security and privacy.
I wouldn't call myself shy in the least, but I prefer that my life be off-the-record. I take painstaking efforts to keep my digital footprint in all areas of life as light as possible. I'd rather be known to a smaller but deeply intimate audience and enjoy the expression and nuance that those private, offline experiences allow. If you prefer the warm glows of candlelight or the moon to that of a computer screen, you and I will get along perfectly.
Privacy and security are a lifestyle, and I wear it well. Here's how I keep our time together as ours:
1. Pre-Screening
All potential paramours must screen before each date, and this practice is non-negotiable. This minimal personal information ensures that we have a baseline of safety and trust for everyone's comfort.
2. Secure (and Encrypted) Communications
Any and all communications we may have are sensitive, meaning that I use services and practices to keep them safeguarded.
For email, I use ProtonMail. If both the sender and the recipient are using ProtonMail, it's an end-to-end (E2E) encrypted email experience. It's free and I encourage its use in planning our play over other platforms like Google or Microsoft.
For texting, I use Signal as much as possible. Like ProtonMail, if we're both using Signal, it's E2E as well. It's available for iPhones and Androids, doesn't log IP Addresses, logs minimum amounts of data in general, and messages are set to disappear.
Additionally, I do not call or text without your prior approval.
3. Data Deletion
As soon as our date has passed, your screening information and all other sensitive or otherwise identifying communications are deleted. And then I delete those deleted items so that my trash isn't holding any unsavory secrets. (Besides wrappers loudly revealing that I can't quell my loves for anything made with puff pastry or for extra-dark chocolate with sea salt, my culinary Achilles' Heels.)
4. Offline Conduct
When we're out, it's likely that I'll be noticed. It's just what happens to bewitching women like myself, can't be helped.
So while I'll stand out, it will never be for the wrong reasons. Be assured that I'll be dressed alluringly but appropriately for the setting, and that how I act and speak in public will betray nothing except that I'm flush with excitement to be in your company.
5. Photos
You'll find that I'm happy to ditch the devices during our time together. We have all we need right in front of us.
During our dates, I may take photos of myself, the ambiance, or the location. Most times, these are memories for myself, but sometimes I won't be able to resist posting them on social media. When I do post, photos are posted long after we've left the scene, and also so that the location is public and unrecognizable. Any specifics of you or other identifying information are left out.
6. Sharing of Identifying Information
I don't kiss and tell, period. This goes for verbal, written, or other communications as well as our experiences. These juicy lips are sealed.
I miei amanti are always welcome to ask about my security protocols, they are always evolving. Preferably followed by a sensual, relaxing—and, yes—private time.
Ciao and meow from your Leonessa,
